As the second semester of the 2023-2024 school year begins, many seniors across the country are nervously anticipating the arrival of college acceptance and rejection emails. For many seniors, this period consists of a rollercoaster of emotions, ranging from excitement to disappointment. Being able to handle these acceptances and rejections is necessary toto remain mentally well and still plan for the future.
Firstly, all seniors should know that a rejection letter does not reflect one’s self-worth or the amount of effort that was put into the past four years of schooling. College admissions revolve around various criteria: academics, extracurricular activities, quality of essays submitted, and letters of recommendation. “Rejection is redirection. I feel like rejection closes a door that wasn’t meant for you and introduces you to something that you may not have seen coming. Rejection isn’t always a bad,” says Hayden Lee (12).
Undoubtedly, rejection emails may come, and it’s natural to feel a sense of sadness or disappointment. However, it’s crucial not to dwell on what could have been. To keep your spirits high, shift your focus to the acceptances and the achievements they represent. Remember, there’s a college out there where you can thrive academically and socially, and it’s waiting for you.
Remember, if a rejection is weighing heavily on you, take comfort in the fact that college admissions offices are there to support you. They are more than willing to respond to emails regarding previous applications. When you submit your transcripts to follow up with colleges that you have been deferred from or haven’t heard back from, college admissions will often provide valuable feedback, shedding light on the reasons behind their decisions.
As you weigh your decision and come to the conclusion as to what school to attend, weigh all the options. Prestige, while important, should not be your ultimate deciding factor. Take into account affordability, school size, and campus life as well.
Lastly, it’s crucial to stay humble throughout this journey. Remember, many of your peers have also applied to the same schools, and some of them may have faced rejections. Whether you have been accepted to your dream school or faced a rejection, it’s important to keep in mind that college is just one of the many paths to success. This perspective will keep you grounded and maintain a healthy outlook on your future.
The world is so much more than just a college admissions letter. Do not let that determine your happiness. Everything happens for a reason, and trusting your path will lead to ultimate success in the future.
