February fourteenth is the day in our calendars when love is celebrated worldwide. Couples celebrate their love for each other by going out to dinner or buying each other chocolates, and friends celebrate by having “Galentines” Day parties. What seems to be the issue with people sharing their love for one another? The seemingly dividing factor for students on this issue at YLHS is whether they are single or not. Some students view Valentine’s Day as “a bit too much” (Matthew Folkin 9).
For some students, Valentine’s Day is like a giant sign flashing “YOU’RE SINGLE” in big, bold letters. They’re dodging heart-shaped balloons, drowning in love songs played on the radio, and trying to avoid the overwhelming pictures of couples flooding their social media pages. Whether or not you successfully evade all of these reminders, the daunting reality of your loneliness is unavoidable. Although there truly aren’t any more couples than actually exist on the day, sometimes it feels like everyone else but you have a special someone. Freshman Matthew says, “I don’t have a problem with the day itself. What I do think is weird is the way couples show their love to each other in public” (Matthew Folkin 9). PDA, or, public displays of affection, are prevalent on this holiday no matter where you are. Another reason why Valentine’s Day has such a stigma around it is because of social media. “I would rather not see Tik Toks about what chocolates are acceptable or not to give to your girlfriend on Valentine’s Day, that should be up to the couples themselves and not social media” (Claire Severson 11).
On the other hand, many hold Valentine’s Day close to their heart and enjoy having a designated day to celebrate their love for their friends or significant other. “What some people don’t realize is that this day doesn’t just have to be about couples. You can celebrate with your friends or family you love too” (Claire Severson 11). Throughout the recent years, celebrating “Galentines” Day has grown in popularity. Friends get together and celebrate their love and appreciation for each other through food and festivities. Many students agree that this is a cute way to feel included on this holiday.
Despite the controversial stance on this holiday, no one can deny that Valentine’s Day is just another day on the calendar. Whether or not you have a significant other, choose to embrace the love that surrounds this comforting holiday by hugging your loved ones extra tight or telling a teacher you appreciate them. Valentine’s day can be celebrated by all so share the love!
